Two-timing hurts right???
So why do people go out to have fun and end up snogging the living crap out of someone else or even ending up drunk and then bedding them??? When people with partners go elsewhere for some time out or to have a stress free night they dont realise that it can have an affect on others, especially the loved ones. Nights out can lead to an unwelcome home with questions waiting to be answered, slanging matches occur, slapped faces and moreover emotional pain, these are just the few fallouts when a person plays away.
Infideleity raises a number of questions......
WhY??? did that person stray away from their partner in the first place?
WhAt??? signs did the cheated partner miss?
HoW??? should each of the three people involved approach the problem, once everythings out in the open?
Partners may stray from their other half becasue they may have the thrill of the forbidden, fear of lost freedom, Straightforward lust or even lack of mutual satisfication.
'Women need a reason to have sex. Men just need a place.'(When Harry Met Sally star Billy Crystal)
A few common tell tale symptoms of infidelity can be:
He/She has become much vainer, He/She has a sudden change in tastes, He/She may not want to get physical anymore.....Fact..someone who is two-timing you snogs like a dead fish!?!
He/She becomes secretive
And your constantly looking for all the above and maybe more???
'Monogamy [sticking to one partner] is fabulous. It gives you a deep and profound connection with another human being, and you don't have to shave your legs as much.'(Sex and the City)
The ChEaT
Was it a on-off OR was it the only time you were caught? If it was a single incident and it wont happen again you have got to put things straight and talk to your paryner, be superman/woman and save the day as well as you relationship. Whatever happens do not use the excuse "I was drunk" that is just so lame.
If you was two timing over a long period of time youve got to make a decision, choosing freedom or sticking to the long term commitment to your partner.
A guide to dealing with infidelity can be found at: www.2-in-2-1.co.uk/marriageclinic/infidelity/
Choose your pick BuT think it through!!!
Good luck to those who are in the situation!
Qt.....xXx
